XI. Never call a man rogue, or bluntly charge him with dishonesty; few men can bear either: if thou believe a man to be dishonest, coolly and clearly state thy reasons against him, and leave him to draw the conclusion: thou wilt be in danger of hurting thyself by doing otherwise, and of making him worse. XII. If thou rashly say a thing which ought not to have been said, confess thy fault as soon as thou canst: it is the least atonement thou canst make. If thou rashly engage to do a thing which ought not to be done, do nor make bad worse by persisting to do it for thy word's sake. ་ The cares of this life being necessarily many, is it not wise to make them as few as possible by contentment in a little business? XIV. Much business bringeth much worldly care; and what can compensate for the loss of time, that is voluntarily and unnecessarily incumbered? XV. If we let the inward instructor speak, and be obeyed in little things, we shall never want a guide in great ones. XVI. Guard against hastily becoming a surety for thy supposed friend, and thou shalt have the fewer enemies, and the fewer troubles. XVII... Well did the wise man say, "Riches certainly make themselves wings, and fly away as an eagle towards heaven!" Prov. xxiii. 5. And the royal Psalmist, "He gave them their request, but sent leanness into their soul!" Psa. cvi. 15. XVIII. All true riches centre in the mind; but the love of outward grandeur and pleasure makes the poverty of the spirit! XIX. Sweet are those thoughts into which neither the lust of the eye, the Just of the flesh, nor the pride of life, enter! XX. Be not over-earnest in the pursuit even of those outward objects that may seem the most proper for thee; for steadiness and calmness of mind make a present good, which over-earnestness of desire may destroy. ESSAY ON FRIENDSHIP, DELIVERED AT THE PANTHEON, EDINBROUGH, April 12, 1792. BY R. CUMMING. NOT noisy war, which fires the hero's soul, Nor ineek-ey'd Peace, nor commerce, source of wealth, Nor gold, nor pow'r, boast of th'ambitious great, As once when here* the laurel due entwin'd With them she wander'd through those pristine scenes, Not wealth nor pleasure e'er could court her hence, Can once allure her from her sacred fane. Too pure to mix with vice, th'invidious mind Alluding to a former poetical debate in the Pantheon. † R. Ferguson. Her heav'nly beauties ne'er with pleasure view'd, The sordid miser's callous frozen soul; The pow'r of Friendship on the human mind As move harmonic. Hence this living flame This heav'nly principle is not that pow'r Sweet as the breath of morn, or balm of spring; Sorrow she sooths, the wounds of anguish heals, Excites that pleasure which must ever rise From unity of hearts without reserve, From mutual confidence and conscious worth. TO BE CONTINUED. |