connubial love. He was told that in time his views would undergo a change, and that he would yet give up father and mother for one dearer still. The truth of their assertions were speedily proved. He then could say : "When I gazed on a beautiful face, Or a form which my fancy approved, I was pleased with its sweetness and grace, But my heart, though I strove to deceive, I could look, I could like, I could leave, "Yet though I from others could rove, On your hand, that pure altar, I vow, It was some time, however, before the truth dawned upon his own mind. At first he thought his ailment was a physical one. He consulted an eminent physician. He obtained advice and remedies to boot; but all in vain. No medicine could touch his case. He was ready to exclaim— "My heart is sick, my heart is sad, What was his complaint? Of course he was love-sick, and the only remedy for his malady was to secure the object of his affection. "There is a love that is feverish, violent, and full of profession. But having gained its object its force is soon expended. Finley Johnson has charmingly expressed the characteristics of love in the following lines : "I will love thee, ever love thee, With passion strong and deep; And round the fibres of my heart Sweet faith shall weave a spell; : Whose charms shall bind my heart to thee "I will love thee, ever love thee, As long as life shall last; And shield thee with the arms of love Though time's relentless hand should stamp I will love thee with a faith as pure, E'en as I love thee now. 66 I will love thee, ever love thee, And for thy throbbing breast "I will love thee, ever love thee, Its golden links, but I shall love, Many young people commit a grave error when they first seek a life companion. They do not seek in the right place to find those qualities which ought to be the primary object of every young person, in securing a wife or husband. A young man will frequently be captivated with some partner in a ball-room, whom he has never seen before, and he fancies himself to be in love directly; but not one question does he ask himself whether she is likely to make him a good wife, or whether she is suited to his temperament and circumstances. He is led away by her personal attractions. He knows not whether her beauty is merely skin deep, or whether it reaches to her heart. He is entirely ignorant of the quality of her mind. It is the style of the woman he approves her figure, her dress, her bonnet. He little thinks of loving the woman for her own sake. The same error, too, is committed by females. The hard worker in humble but honest garb, who pays his way, and has no pretensions to be what he is not, is too frequently passed on one side, in favour of a "fast" man, or a "dandy,' dressed according to the latest fashion. The curl in his hair, his well-cultivated moustache, his gentlemanly strut, or his silver-headed cane, win her heart. She never asks if his fine clothes or cane have been paid for. His fine speeches enamour her. She is taken by appearances. She is like a moth flying round the gaslight. She is caught at last; and then she has leisure. to repent her folly, and drink the cup of sorrow to its dregs. "Love is a plant of holier birth, Than any that takes root in earth; A flower from heaven, where 'tis a crime, To number with the things of time; Hope in the bud is often blasted, "But love shall live and live for ever, And chance and change shall reach it never; By want or woe be disunited ? Ah! no, like buds on one stem born, They share between them e'en the thorn Which round them dwells, but parts them not, D |